Tuesday, November 18, 2008

Ah ha - now Angie and Brad make sense.

I love babies as much as the next guy, I guess. They're cuddly and soft and make sweet noises and have that incredible baby smell, but to be honest, when both my boys reached their respective first birthdays, I was somewhat relieved.

The breastfeeding, the bottles, the burping, the sleepless nights, the spit up, the worries. Did I mention the spit up? Not to scare any of you new mommies out there, but it's what I imagine Green Beret boot camp, hard-core interrogation and head zoo keeper duties would be like if all rolled together.

I actually laughed at a new acquaintance the other day when she asked if we were planning on having any more children. Ah, no - I won the lottery.

Twice.

Thanks, but I'm not bellying up to that bar again.

But then I had an experience of such pure parental bliss today, that I clearly saw why families continue to have children. It must be so that they may relive this moment again and again...

The Youngest and I were trolling around our local Super Target when he happened to catch a glimmer of the Christmas aisles.

If you're not privy to the classic Super Target layout, what I consider "necessities" are on one side, while the "frivolities" reside on the other. I do everything possible to stay on the necessities side, because really, I have absolutely no self control when it comes to candles, frames, random seasonal items, etc.

But today, we happened to skirt the dark side while picking out a birthday card for my brother.

"Mama!" with one sweet finger on the verge of loosing that baby fat pointing down the way - "What's! That?!"

A baby's First Christmas is pretty cool. By the second, they're kind of getting into some of it. But watch out for that magical third - oh, how it's like every. single. strand. of tinsel was created just to mesmerize them.

So we proceeded to go up and down seven aisles of Christmas paraphernalia, and he ate it up.

From snow globes, mangers and automated village scenes to wreathes, yard art and twinkling light displays, with even a little Hanukkah and Kwanzaa cheer thrown in. His reaction to the NASCAR ornament selection was one of complete amazement, and just when I thought it couldn't get any better, we reached the pinnacle of his experience.

Behold, the Pre-Lit Iridescent White Glacier Tree - 7 foot:



Now granted, naked this thing looks like a reject from the Charlie Brown Christmas Tree Lot. But imagine it with sparkling glass ornaments ranging in color from raspberry to egg plant, and on top, the most majestic star ever created - hand blown just for wide-eyed, open-mouthed Youngest.

"Oh Maaaamaaaaaa - it's so boooootifuuul." He actually grabbed his cheeks.

Some might say all of this is just excess - the product of how far the celebration of Jesus' birth has fallen to mass marketing and common greed.

I say, lighten up - it's a birthday party after all.

Peas and carrots. Leather and lace. Christmas and children.

Thanks for reminding me baby.

In all my Holiday worry, I had almost forgotten the magic.


Isaiah 11:6 "...and a little child shall lead them."


- to my visiting SiTSas, welcome!! Make yourself at home. So glad to have new visitors - your comment love will sustain me as I face the mile-high stack of dirty dishes from Thanksgiving dinner. Wish me luck!

56 comments:

Heather said...

LOVE this post!!

Dr. Wifey said...

christmas decor is my weakness!

Soxy Deb said...

Seeing anything through a child's eyes is almost like you've never seen it before. They can be amazed by so many things we take for granted. Glad you got your AH-HA moment just in time for the season.
Have a great day!!

Carissa(GoodnCrazy) said...

But watch out for that magical third ...I love watching my kids light up about the holidays about that year too! This year my 4 year is trying to just understand TIME! How long til christmas, How long til my birthday? Why is older sister already 10? How do I get to be 10??

Love it.

Kristina P. said...

I am so happy that you mentioned Brangelina. Love them.

And your kid is adorable.

Debbie said...

Good for you to take the time to see the magic with him. Yes, we need to follow our children this time of year.

mommaof4wife2r said...

i just got the memory of linus telling the christmas story in charlie brown christmas. it's my fav part of the movie...and i love the tree!

Shannon said...

"Oh Maaaamaaaaaa - it's so boooootifuuul." He actually grabbed his cheeks"....

How adorably cute is Youngest??!?!! LOVE it!

T said...

oh, I needed this reminder this season...

but understanding Brangelina... I'll never get THERE! The kids I get - but them? Yeah, I'll work on that!

KDLOST said...

cute!!! that tree sure is bootiful!

Threeboys1mommy said...

So cute... and f you do decide to have another I have a pair of perfectly good strollers for your baby shower.

Leanne said...

Yep. I'll never forget my first' daughter's first Christmas. She was eleven months old. She saw a Christmas tree and stood in awe. She would not move. It made me look again and appreciate it. Thanks for bringing back that memory.

Andrea said...

What a sweet post! I remember that magical 3rd Christmas with my oldest as well. . . I had forgotten until you reminded me! Now it is my little ones turn too:)

Jenni Jiggety said...

Awww! I do love seeing it through their eyes every year...

angie said...

What a wonderful reminder to pay attention to the magic. Thank you!

Anna Lefler said...

Oh, that's awesome. Wonderfully put and (dare I say it?) heartwarming.

Thank you.

:^) Anna

CailinMarie said...

darling - am off to my evening chores with feelings of warm fuzzies and wide eyed delight - thank you

Aunt Becky said...

This is precisely why I love having kids.

Madge said...

i love it. i didn't really enjoy the holidays until i started to experience it through my children.

Kelsey said...

Aww! He get's it!
You guys are going to have such a fun Christmas. I bet your little guy will love decorating and hanging stockings.

You have an award over here when you get a chance.

nikkicrumpet said...

Funny...my hubby does that same thing every single year! He's such a Christmas ho Cool thing is I don't have to have any more kids to enjoy the magic he sees in Christmas finery. And I get to sleep with him too! BONUS!
Have a great day...loved the post.

Laura said...

This made me cry!!!!! I have a 2 1/2 year old that saw the trees at Target just yesterday!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! And I feel so very much the same as you.
It is a birth...and a celebration...and if you can get passed the long lines, stress, Christmas cards, and credit card debt...there is magic.

Thanks to our babes for this oh so important reminder.

Heather said...

Oh yes, this post really resonates with me. And you're right - Jesus is the reason for the season, but it *is* a birthday party!!

My kiddo and I spend way too much time wandering the holiday decor aisles this time of year. This year, she's drooling over the ginormous, oversized, about the size of her head ball ornaments - Sam's Club has a container of them about my height for sale in every color combo - and she's been begging me to buy them for our tree.

If we *did* buy them, I think we'd need a larger tree. Don't know if Hubby would go for that.....

It really is the Most Wonderful Time of the Year!!! :D

PARKER FAMILY BLOG said...

This post brought tears to my eyes!
I know what you mean about children and the joy of Christmas. My boys love walking very slowly up and down the Christmas aisles. Ooohing and Aaaawing! I love it!!

jori-o said...

Over from SITS--very well put! Love it!

ciara said...

came via sits...isn't it wonderful the magic we can see through our children? :)

Jamie said...

I used to love Christmas but then I started working at Target and spent 4 hours pulling Christmas decor out of our stockroom on Black Friday....I guess I still love Christmas just not as much as before is all.

visiting from SITS! Have a great weekend!

cat said...

I agree - it is after all the biggest birthday party of the year.

Natalie said...

How sweet!!!

Kristin said...

That is exactly the kind of moments when I consider the expansion of the family. Thank goodness I have managed to avoid Target so far this year.

Visiting from SITS but will be back.

jubilee said...

Thanks for the reminder. Seeing through a child's eyes is what keeps us young, right?!

Shelley said...

Aw. That's precious, mama. I guess with getting all stressed out bcause of economic worries, I could have used something like this. But I, like you, will not be bellying up to that bar again.
Have a great day.

Sandy said...

awwwwwwww...

This is my daughter's first christmas in the states (she's two). We adopted her from Guatemala in January. I don't think she's ever seen so many lights in her life. Wait until the tree goes up in OUR house. She'll freak!

Bless you!
Sandy Cooper
www.godspeakstoday.blogspot.com

georgie said...

stoppin by from SITS
Very cute story...jst wait till he is a teen oh goodness...lol...but I will be here for ya-because at that point the cycle of life will have me at being a G'ma and I will be reliving the Ah-Ha's with a grandchild UNLESS I go into the witness protection program ;-)

Semi-Happy Homemaker said...

Kids....ya gotta love 'em! Great post, and love your blog!

Jen r. said...

Very cute!!!! I think Christmas is all about the kids!

cornnut32 said...

i can't wait until my little one hits that stage. :)

Michele said...

Bellying up to that bar? Now, that's good writing! Have a great day!

Megan R. said...

Aww, I love this post! My LO is only a month old, so I'm still at the spit up stage....but at least I have this to look forward to!

Melodie said...

This one is our youngest's third Christmas, too. She has been talking about seeing Santa Claus for weeks now, and this morning when my husband put up our new pre-lit faux Christmas tree, she was in awe the entire time. Once he turned the lights on, she got even more excited. I can't wait to see how she reacts when we take her for breakfast with Santa tomorrow morning.

Laurie said...

Now THAT is the magic of Christmas! Thanks for the reminder...

I just finishing washing my Thanksgiving dishes. Hope yours are done now too.

Erin said...

What a great post to kick off the holiday season. I saw a tree like that in Target the other day and was surprised how much I was drawn to it. It was absolutely beautiful.

Katie said...

Oh...my son freaks out when he sees the Christmas trees up in Target. It's the best!!!

I've been slowly plugging away at several loads of dishes myself! It's almost time for load #3...God forbid I do any of it by hand!! :)

Here from SITS! :)

Deborah said...

Wow, and I've been speeding through that aisle at Target. You made me realize I need to slow down and remember the beauty of it through a little one's eyes. AND most of all it is a Birthday!

Columbia Lily said...

aw! that's awesome!!

April said...

awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww. love it. my 2yo knows exactly where the christmas display is at sears and whenever we're at the mall he makes a beeline to it. so cute these little ones we have! :-)

mrsbear said...

I was actually suffering from a lack of holiday enthusiasm, maybe it's the post feast indigestion blues. Thanks for that. Good luck with those dishes.

Lavender n Lattés said...

I agree! Lighten up - it IS a birthday party!!! I've never heard anyone put it that way before! And I have to say, by the time I got to the bottom of your post, I had goosebumps!

Michelle said...

Oh, I love how the magic of Christmas just keeps growing as they get older (my oldest is five, so it hasn't gone away yet!). What a fun story!

And umm good luck with those dishes!

hyperactive lu said...

It is true! By the 3rd Christmas, Bubbie knew exactly what was going on! It is so much fun to be able to watch your children really GET Christmas and get all excited with them about the little things!

Sometimes Sophia said...

Visiting from SITS... Great post about one of those magical moments. It's wonderful to see holidays through a child's eyes.

Casey's trio said...

SO true...my girls are 3 this year and it is a whole new experience. They love driving around and looking at all the lights and Christmas stuff every where. I have gotten a heads up from my BF that by next year, they will know exactly what they want from Santa. So I'm gonna savor this year while they don't care what Santa brings them.

Vanessa Rogers said...

I'm all about the Christmas magic. Great choice :)

LenaLoo said...

I sped past that aisle yesterday for fear of being consumed... But maybe I'll go back and leave my wallet in the car so I can look without buying... Thanks for this, leaving you some SITS love...

Jen said...

you are so right!

Jaden Paige said...

Awww :) What a sweet moment... and a great post! Happy Belated Sits day :D

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